I was in two minds as whether to join this thread, as I don't think I can add anything useful. However I thought it was important to say that everyone makes valuable contributions.
From my own experience some days I get it wrong, I become the proverbial dog barking up the wrong tree. I know some of things I say piss others off! And there's some here that just wind me up whatever they do. That is a fact of life.
There are people out there that don't like me, and I'm sure there are people out there that don't like you. You will never know why, it might be because you remind them of a school bully, it might be your accent, it might be your status... Indeed I suspect the people that dislike you have no idea why they dislike you...
You will have a perception in your mind as to whether someone is a friend or foe. Someone, friend/foe will post something and depending on your underlying attitude towards that person, if you feel they are "Friend" then your response might be one thing and if they are"Foe" your response might be something else.
I have proven this in a very rudimentary way. I posted a Blog years ago which was set upon and mauled to death! It was very disquieting to see people reacted to it. So I deleted it, and within an hour I re-posted it. It got a completely different reception, it didn't ruffle any feathers in fact it got a nice feel to it and became a really useful blog.
What I'm trying to say is we're all here working together, we all have different standards, different ideas, different experiences and I think that's what we are seeing here, there's nothing wrong with anything anyone has done or said, it's just that the colourisation of it has made it into something --- else!