Now, Pat... given the abominations we have both seen on this forum in over 20 years, you know there is ALWAYS a reason. It just doesn't have to be a good one.
Past a certain point, I become amused by the logic some people offer for the crazy, inappropriate, or disastrous things they do. And then I think back to times when I didn't know better and, before I found this forum, had to guess what to do. Wrong is still wrong, but thinking back to when I was a raw beginner, I have learned to forgive others for failings I once shared (and still might).