I actually do tend to copy and paste.
Size one and roughly position. Copy and paste = 2.
Select all, copy and paste = 4.
Select all, copy, paste and use the align tool to align them horizontally = 8.
Select whole row, copy and paste = 16.
Roughly position 2nd row.
Select both rows, copy and paste = 32.
Paste again = 48.
Then I select each column of items in turn and use the align tool to align to line them up.
Naming and Control Sources? Yes, that is tedious but with years of practice it gets reasonable quick.
Mind you, you can actually select multiple controls and make them all the same size, ie Fit to Widest, Narrowest, Tallest, Shortest.
Failing that, select multiple controls and simply change the width, height etc in the Property form.
Although I've not used it, the new Layout mode (compared to Access 97) may give you more control.