Thanks. That analogy doesn't help people who have no programming experience but that epiphany really helped me when it came to me after a year or two of struggling to figure out how to actually use the event model to my advantage instead of feeling like I was fighting an uphill battle

I'm glad you found it helpful. Just remember there is almost certainly ONE SINGLE event that will solve your problem. You just have to figure out what that event is

Sometimes, it will seem like the choice of events is equal but when you dig deeply, it is almost never equal. One will surely be better than another. For example, I had one person argue with me about why he thought the lost focus event was the "correct" event for validation because he liked the idea that Access wouldn't let you leave the control. That's why I made it the star of the second video where I show how that event fails to stop Access from saving invalid data no matter how promising it looks on the surface.
I don't know if you ever saw this thread but if you haven't seen it, do take a look. Building this sample to show WHY the BeforeUpdate event is the best event for data validation actually was an eye opener for me. There are two videos which have gotten good reviews based on my PM's. The database I used is a recent addition to the thread. you can use the forms I used in the videos or you can make your own to test specific circumstances.
I just added #2 --- that link is further down. It is much shorter than #1. I also added a copy of the database I used for the video. Enjoy:) I created a database to help people to understand how and why to use the Form's BeforeUpdate event to validate data. @Uncle Gizmo and I made a...
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