Sometimes war is justified, most times not
I've been thinking, and pursuing some kind of settled conclusion in my mind, on that question my entire life.
Each time I think I have it more settled, doubts creep in. I imagine how much I probably underestimate the suffering war causes, then I question that support of it. Other times I find it persuasive the idea that because extreme violence is always very disturbing, the 'avoidance' of it will always be the easier conclusion, and I imagine the suffering that could be caused by failure to act decisively enough, at just the right times, throughout history.
I hope at some point it seems clearer to me.
One possible perspective - that war imposed on others is the worst, whereas war imposed by its own citizens may be more justified, as they choose their destiny. (?)
I do find it interesting that many of the same people in USA society/politics/media, who are most critical of past US wars such as Iraq, also are the most supportive of our proxy war in Ukraine.
I find it to be very, very likely that to some degree, everyone fools themselves at times, based on how a certain Leader has a skill at marketing themselves in a certain way. We think of Putin one way, and Zelensky a different way. But do we really know?? What if Zelensky is just a lot more successful in curating his image in a way that he knows appeals to Westerners?
Are we certain that we know who the good guys are in Ukraine/Russia, any more than we did in Iraq?
And if not, do we justify our involvement in Ukraine to some extent because we aren't actually doing it, just funding it? Does it make any difference to the people when a bullet strikes them?
The whole world stood by while people on the African continent slaughtered each other some years ago. Many innocent children killed.
Any major country might have stopped it. For that, we are all guilty, I think.
Is it morally OK to walk by a small child being bullied in the schoolyard by someone else? Because "its not our fight" ?
These are tough questions, but worth thinking about. Inaction is generally comfortable, but I'm not sure having peace about something means much, when our peace comes from being distant from others' pain.