@The_Doc_Man yes that is a sobering thought. May you live as many years as you want & enjoy !!
Dementia also scares me, especially for the caretakers. It's difficult to imagine taking intimate and backbreaking care of someone who has no idea who you are, I hope the pharma and health industry make major strides in these areas soon - and recognizing it early is key, which is hard, as nobody wants to concede Yes I have the beginnings of it ..
It would be priceless to get inside the brain of the suffering patient, and see exactly how they really felt (how much insight they had or frustration they felt), but for now the obvious outward signs are sufficiently damning to the disease.
@KitaYama ... I don't blame or judge you for that at all, though my Dad approaching 90 and lives by himself with zero care in a wild, forbidding wilderness area, essentially - so you never known for sure just how 'bad' it will (or won't) get. I also think somewhat like you, I'd like to die at whatever the optimal age for me is - having only a little to do with length of years. In fact, and this may sound very Japanese of me, but even though I am a Christian who usually believes that suicide is very wrong - Yet, I struggle with this concept, personally. I struggle
not to believe that it is totally appropriate to end your life for a handful of good reasons at a reasonable time. I have to admit it.
To our dear scientists, life expectancy is a nice metric to see improving, but perhaps quality of life has lagged behind the increases in longevity.