Isaac
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That's something that would happen in a perfect world. The friend would call out another friend and that second friend wouldn't be offended, might say something like "thanks for reminding me to stay within the guidelines" with no offense taken - But you're talking about a perfect world that doesn't exist. I can understanding wanting it though.I think we should actually call out things people say, in public, to those folks that are out of line. Especially, if we happen to share their world view.
That's kind of what I'm doing at this point. I'm policing myself to the extent that I will avoid topics that light my own fire, or topics where I struggle to back out once in the middle of a good debate! which is politics for the most part.The second part is the wide brush method of avoiding specific topics, where more than a little fundamental agreement should be possible
It's sad really, that we have to avoid talking about all the stuff that really matters, but necessary to keep our friend safe from any kind of problems
Perhaps we should all start a subreddit where we can 'get it out' LOL. I always call Reddit the 'toilet of the internet' but it does serve a purpose