Why I always feel like this?

[prabha_friend]

I don't know whether it's because of my traumatic childhood may be. I always have a temptation to have a talk with someone. Many business projects leave me because of this "Loose Talk". How to control it? Why am I like this? Has anyone here had the same and came out of it? if you are... please share this secret recipe. Thanks. If the admin feels this post doesn't fit here. I request him to kindly delete this...

With Hope,
Prabhakaran

 

[The_Doc_Man]

Prabhakaran - we are all human, which means that we are - through evolution - a tribe/pack oriented animal. The human animal is garrulous because we area social animal, i.e. we don't like to feel alone. Do you feel that you need to talk because most of the time you are alone and have no partner for conversation? The solution to a problem usually starts with finding the cause of the problem.

The problem of feeling the need to talk isn't new. One important question is, have you learned to stop boring people? And the other, even more important question is, have you learned to start listening? It is difficult at best and impossible at worst to listen if you don't stop talking. You have to practice listening just in case you run across someone else who wants to talk as much as you do.

As for your concerns about the topic, this IS the Watercooler and - at least at the moment - I see no controversy in the question.