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We never hit them at all. We had reasoned discussions about why their behaviour was considered unacceptable.
I brought my kids up without religion. I didn’t become a Christian until years later. I brought them up like I was brought up. Some stuff good, some stuff bad. I never had to spank my daughter, my son a few times, and only for direct disobedience. My parents never spanked my sisters, me often, again for directed disobedience. Evidently whipping didn’t do me much good. Taking away my privileges didn’t help me much either. I didn’t start straightening out my life until I was 17 and joined the Navy to get away from my parents because they were always telling me what to do, and they were so stupid. I came back from Boot Camp three months later and I couldn’t believe how smart they had become in three months. <G>
How about punishment? Sent to their room, can't go someplace, etc. If so that is a type of fear.