Referential Integrity is not a bug. It's there to stop you from adding redundant records, i.e. the record must exist in the parent table for it to exist in the child table.
My problem here is just that you're not explaining your problem well. I've asked specifically for you to elaborate by telling me which exact record to look for, which control to look at but your explanations still continue to be vague. There are 3 tables, 5 queries and 1 form in your db.
I need you to tell me which exact record to select on the form, which exact item to look for on the Vendor Data listbox and Customer name respectively, then I hit the button and tell me which exact record ID is different from what is in the Vendor Data listbox. Explain it as if this was a manual you're writing - in bullet points.
My problem here is just that you're not explaining your problem well. I've asked specifically for you to elaborate by telling me which exact record to look for, which control to look at but your explanations still continue to be vague. There are 3 tables, 5 queries and 1 form in your db.
I need you to tell me which exact record to select on the form, which exact item to look for on the Vendor Data listbox and Customer name respectively, then I hit the button and tell me which exact record ID is different from what is in the Vendor Data listbox. Explain it as if this was a manual you're writing - in bullet points.