How to be cool despite of a person taking you granted and deleting your posts... (2 Viewers)

[prabha_friend]

Not here... In my old school WhatsApp group. Have no one to ventilate that's why sharing here... If this violates or being absurd kindly delete this post. Otherwise thankyou all for being a shoulder to cry. I am feeling a lot relieved after sharing this Here...

 

[NauticalGent]

Obviously the person deleting your posts is an admin - losing your cool would not help you. If you have reached out to the person privately and they are still being obstructive, either comply or leave the group. Either way, if you show your displeasure, it will only make that person happy.

 

[prabha_friend]

Obviously the person deleting your posts is an admin - losing your cool would not help you. If you have reached out to the person privately and they are still being obstructive, either comply or leave the group. Either way, if you show your displeasure, it will only make that person happy.

Even I am an Admin too but I don't want to reciprocate such a nasty behaviour...

 

[Isaac]

Explain more about being taken for granted. Do you mean the same meaning as English phrase taken for granted - which basically means, to my mind, being underappreciated compared to expectations

 

[MarkK]

Define in your own mind what your values are, and what you are committed to. If others act poorly, allow them that freedom.
• if your own values and commitments are ambiguous, you are more likely to engage in reciprocal poor behaviour.
. • you suffer more from bad shit you do, less from bad shit people do to you
• begin to map conflict and confrontation with difficult people as the grindstone that hones your independent ability to distinguish what matters.
. • only idiots get into fights with idiots. • go do something worthwhile instead.
• as the clarity of your own values and commitments sharpen, you can increasingly cut through more difficult material with less friction.
• this helps you stay cool.