Okay, the main problem about the subform not showing up is that you have the main form's ALLOW EDITS set to NO. They have to be YES.
Second, I redid your two tables a bit and the relationships and the form so that it would be more correct. So that is my suggestion. I would not use DATE as the linking factor. I would use an ID number which can be shared amongst tables (see how I did it in this case). You currently don't have a primary key set in your tables which is not really good. And not only that, but joining on DATE would make it so that it is only really good for ONE record per date but if that's what you need then you should remove the DOB From the subform and its table (one place is sufficient) and then your relationships should set a composite key on DATE and PHYSICIAN. But I'd avoid composite keys if at all possible and just use the method in my revision of your database.
Let me know if you have questions.