Ok. I have found if I use, in design view:
Date/Time:
"d, m, yy" I enter 3,5,12
Here are my results:
d,m,yy is displayed. If i click back into the fields it will display the proper format 3/5/2012. Just as soon as I leave the field it returns to d,m,yy.
I'm getting closer to my needs but it...