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Doc, I don't want to be rude and it's only based on my personal experience. I may be wrong.
I think it's not only you that is (were) used to using those words. English is a language with a lot of dirty words and the sad point is that they use them a lot of times daily. Watch a movie in English and count how many times you hear those words. You can never see this in any movie in another language.
I've studied a lot of languages in my life. I'm not fluent in any of them, But at least I can grasp the conversation. I've spent more than half of my life with people outside of my native language. I've been with American, English, French, and almost half of Asian countries. But none of them (with my experience, I may be wrong) use those dirty words as much as American.
At least English use bloody instead of Fu**** in most cases.
If you count the number of dirty words someone using in our language in a whole lifetime, it may be less than the count of those words in a single American movie.
Most of those words doesn't even exist in Korean, Chinese, Japanese, Malay ......
For a while I used to read a magazine called Maledicta (Latin for "bad word" or "bad speech"), which discussed vulgarity in many languages. Their subtitle was "The International Journal of Verbal Aggression." They are out of business now and have been for many years. Let's face it, they were a niche publication. I'm surprised they lasted as long as they did.
Maledicta - Wikipedia
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Their articles were all over the map, discussing various body functions. According to one article I recall, there were over 130 recorded (non-vulgar) euphemisms for the act of passing gas - the simple word fart in English. I would suspect there are quite a few euphemisms for sex acts as well, but the sex-act euphemism article was a bit longer and I don't remember much about it.
Every now and then they would publish an article on what was considered vulgar in each of several languages. The words you bemoan and decry might not exist in certain Eastern Asian languages, but not because their citizens don't swear. Instead, they have other phrases that they use - phrases that to western ears would sound bland - because to a large degree, it is what that culture holds highest that also leads to the language that is lowest. In many western cultures, a family's mother is held in the highest regard, so vulgarities would include insults to one's mother. (I hope I don't need to be specific here.) Anyway, if you want to find the ultimate insult in a culture, look for that which the culture reveres. The insult won't be far away.
And by the way, I'm a bit thick-skinned. (Goes along with being thick-headed, I think.) I didn't consider it rude.