Thank you Cindy and Wayne for your replies, I guess I'd still be working if I lived in the US, assuming ageism didn't force me out.
brian
Brian,
You know my current situation with Kate. Her Dad does have health insurance on her but they are doing the dodge and weave on paying. I am not aware of anything being paid to either hospital and we are over $400,000.00 and still climbing. We just got back from MD Anderson, last week, and the insurance had not paid anything on the prior bills so before MD Anderson would treat her they (MD Anderson's buisness admins) took Kate's Dad aside and talked to him for about 45 mins. Dad then came back to Julie and I and asked if we had $3750.00 dollars. (their divorce agreement stated they split medical expenses 50/50), cause MD Anderson said they are not going to do any of the scheduled procedures without paying a little over $7000.00 first. This was after we got up at 2am and drove 5 hours to get there. I don't trust our (USA) insurance as far as I can throw a bull by the tail.
In 1985 my son was a near drowning at my ex father-in-laws ranch. Two and half days later he died. His insurance, Farmers Ins. Group, came to me and told me they would cover all my expenses and that there would be enough money left over to make it worth my while. I told the adjuster he nor anyone else had enough money to make it worth my while. A few weeks later Farmers found out that the boy who had died was related to my father-in-law (they did not know this up to this point due to the two last names not being the same). After they found out, they dropped my father-in-law, after he had paid his premiums for 18 years and then contacted me and said they were not going to pay for anything. Know why? cause we have a law here that in order for me to get them to pay I would have to sue my mother and father in law and it would be a jury trial. In this this trial, by law, the insurance could not be mentioned, so the jurors would be lead to believe that the kids are suing the grandparents for their child drowning on their land and they would have never known the real story that we were suing cause the insurance would not do what they said they would do for a person who paid them premiums for over 18 years. We ended up settling out of court for $12,000.00. It didn't even cover the hospital stay much less anything else like air vac'ing, ambulance, doctors, test, and the list goes on and on.
I believe our medical experience here is among the best in the world. Our doctors, hospitals and etc. I would stack up against anyone but one of our biggest lobbing groups, if not the biggest, in the country is insurance. They have manipulated the laws and have the American people believing they are loosing money hand over fist and it's due to the outrageous cost that the medical community is putting on them. However if you look at the Fortune 500 list, count how many of those companies are insurances. I heard that one of Blue Cross Blue Shields top executives retired just recently and his bonus alone was something like 16 million dollars. Medical cost may need to be policed but
IN MY OPINION our real problem is the insurance companies themselves. They have the upper hand right now. They tell doctors, hospitals, everyone what they will and will not do and no one stops them. For well over ten years now, insurance companies pay less for services than they did 20 years ago but in the meantime premiums have gone up. Who's keeping the difference?
Ok, I'm done with my rant. There's an old country saying that says "a man with an experience is never at the mercy of a man with an argument." I have experienced our health care system on many levels and it has always been excellent care with top professionals. Getting the insurance companies to pay for it, well now that's a whole different story.