Almost all relationships here are reflections. When we offer advice, we would like to think that you actually paid attention to what was said. If we get no positive feedback, things WILL go sour here. Your experience was less than spectacular because you ignored some or all of the comments made by members trying to help you.
We pointed out that your design was flawed and, I don't know, maybe you took umbrage at the idea that your design was shaky. If you had the excuse of having a language barrier, we've worked through those before. But when you have an attitude barrier, that gets trickier.
When you post the same (or closely related) questions on other forums, it is like you are shopping around because you didn't like the answers you were getting. But from our viewpoint, you are wasting our time. This isn't a shop where people get paid commissions on sales volumes. We are all volunteers who help people on our own time out of whatever goodness may be lurking in our hearts. We get NOTHING back except satisfaction for helping someone.
You need to check that attitude at the door. We are here to help based on our knowledge of what works and what doesn't. You were told that you had something in the "what doesn't" category and were told the closest thing that DOES work. But from the feedback YOU gave us, you would think we spiked your party punchbowl or something equally reprehensible. You find us wanting? Keep up that attitude and ask another question. See how well THAT reflects back to you. Show us some decency and you will get serious help. Show us more 'tude and maybe you will get back some of what you give. This isn't a social media page where you get to "diss" folks who don't live up to your standards. This is a technical forum that happens to have a social corner. That's as close as we come to a public slag-fest like FB or Twitter.
