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There is a difference between correction and public humiliation, though, is there not?
Since I became a moderator, I have tried to tone down my impatience with recalcitrant members who fall into the "lead them to water but can't make them drink" category. If I have any problem along those lines, it is sometimes that my directness is taken as a bit abrasive.
I try to call things as I see them and yet NOT call the "difficult" person "the flower of his family - a blooming idiot." We all need to be careful because directness is often the most verbally economical type of response, but also the most susceptible to misinterpretation of intent. It's like walking a verbal tightrope. There WILL be moments of misunderstanding. But that risk still doesn't mean we shouldn't answer the question or correct the erroneous comment. If we don't do that much, we fail in the overall mission of the forum.