if it happens to Johnny foreigner then its ok - if it happens to us its a disaster .. (which is b*llocks) - we should be equally appalled by the same incident -
Not at all ok if it happens to anyone. We were just saying that people do tend to get a bit carried away these days with the whole trauma thing. Absolutely, if you're in the car with the guy or related to him, you will, naturally, be affected more than anyone standing in the crowd.
My whole point, and sorry if I didn't express this sufficiently, is how come some people are able to cope easier with trauma than others?
I am appauled but still curious as to what makes us all so different, and the whole coping mechanism is vastly different. Many of us have lost our jobs, houses, families etc and not taken the stance of ramming our car into a public procession, what made him so different?