In the continuum of people that are the embodiment of humanity, we run into a conundrum. Because we humans are conceived through essentially random selection (of genes and therefore of characteristics), there will be outliers - as there always are with ANY random processes.
The conundrum is how to handle the outliers. We cannot forget one basic fact - that the outliers are human, too, and thus can want, can feel, can mourn, can ache, can envy, ... can experience every emotion and every sensation that the rest of us can. Kids want to have pride, they want to excel, to achieve, to exult as the result of accomplishment. We have even created "Special Olympics" for kids who can never fully compete against "normal" kids (whatever you take "normal" to mean). But for those few young people whose mind and body are so misaligned as to be gender dysphoric, we have no current solutions. Is it any wonder that they want to be like everyone else?
Here is the thought experiment for you. Can you imagine the frustration, the anger, the isolation of a child with a motion disability when that child is told, "Oh, hush your whining. Grow up and live with it." - but then don't give the child crutches, braces, a wheelchair, a walker, physical therapy - SOME kind of accommodation. The image is almost unthinkable. The corresponding image for a gender dysphoric person is harder for us to imagine because it is such an alien situation. Society simply shuffles these PEOPLE (can't forget that they ARE people) into corners and closets. Society tells them that they are unfit to be in general society. And then society wonders about them finally reaching a breaking point and screaming "I am somebody."
Does that sound familiar? Does anyone remember when Black groups finally stood up for their rights? Does anyone who remembers those times now wonder why these afflicted people are becoming more insistent that they should be recognized? And they ARE afflicted. But their problem is that their affliction isn't immediately visible. At birth, they are identified as something that later, they realize that they are not. And with that delayed recognition comes the life of pain.
My stepdaughter experienced that when her biological grandfather (father of wife's ex) essentially disowned her after she "came out" and stopped giving her money for Christmas - but he still forked it over for the "normal" kids. She's a great person. Loving, caring, intelligent, hard-working, has musical skills, personable, a proud veteran who served during Desert Shield and Desert Storm, financially responsible - everything you would want ANY person to be. Oh, by the way - she's gay.