Joe .
Its great that you want to show respect to your fallen sons and daughter.
and you will find that most people also wish to pay there respects to theses soldiers/saliors/airforcemen and women
However , The US has not really made itself universally loved or liked, this is not a pop at the soldieres etc but more at the polictical nature and atittude (typo) some of the foreign policies have left a lot to be desired - and the bully boy antics does not go down well ..
Some americans (not all and this is my view only) seem to think that it is there god given right to push there way through and what they want is more important than any one else - a case in point
a new banker for the world bank organisation, the old banker seems to think he did nothing wrong, promoting his girlfriend etc , and when other countires moan and complained about this - tried to bluff it out , supported by the US govement, now if this had been reversed and the US govement want x out then its a differnet senario
what it comes down to in the end is the US has double standards - It's laws apply to everyone whereever they are, but the laws of another country have no meaning ..
its respect at the end of the day if the US respected others then others would respect the US
Respect like trust is never given always has to be earnt -
US double standards land of the free but it is not allowing due legal process for the so call terrorism it has held. -
It can all anyone a terrorist and lock them up with no review or hard evidense
gagging orders have been put on newspapers, and on films
this is not the land of the free (althought he same could be said about the UK , difference is most brits know it , thats why there will be a change of goverment in the next election.
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