I have also noticed that many beginners already have created a database and they attempt to use it like you would a spreadsheet. Just because you use tables and fields that have columns and rows, they think ACCESS shoud behave like EXCEL. If you ever read my responses, many have the same theme. Design it properly to begin with, and many problems never even happen. And this is also why I like to have the OPs attach at least a sample file. I really don't mind fixing or designing a file. Many times, it is much easier than actually trying to explain (in English) what needs to occur. Sometimes it is better to help them with the file itself and then point them to what you did when the file is opened. I know, I know, some say that is not helping them learn. But it is helping them learn if they can see for themselves how to construct a query or create a form or report. But that's just me. ACCESS and VBA is sometimes very difficult to explain in words (no matter what language you speak). So it doesn't bother me if they attach a file and ask for help.
Another issue is many new users want to use ACCESS in a manner which the designers never intended, and they get frustrated when it can't do something they think it should. They come in this forum and complain they can't get it to do this or that. And then, it is especially frustrating for both the OP and responder if English is a second language. Constucting a sentence that is understandable is often the problem. Than add to that, the ACCESS error message system. Many error messages are so general as to be meaningless to users even if they meant something to the design engineer.
I like ACCESS and this forum. I have learned so much over the years and for the most part, the responders have been very helpful and respectful. It is not always apparent how much experience, or what experience, the OP has. It's a crapshoot sometimes just how much information to give or how much they really need. I was never a programmer to begin with. My focus was always operations auditing and how to improve productivity using technology. From the very first time I opened a LOTUS 1-2-3 spreadsheet, I knew we can use this to help us (that was about 1983 or 4 I believe). I was also on the Microsoft user testing team in Redmond when EXCEL was first developed. They gave each of us a free copy for helping them test and give feedback. My first ACCESS introduction was 1999. I don't remember what version that was, but I converted an EXCEL file over and was hooked. A lot has changed since then.
At the end of the day, we all are trying our best to help others.