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For Christ's sake what's that all about?
Honestly, I don't want to offend anyone, but surely it's a lot better for me to say are you gay? than do you sleep with men?
Really, I just think it's about them wrong footing you. I remember other terms that were used to describe gay people, one was "shirtlifter", there was "poof" and there are other terms which indeed should not be mentioned.
So my question is what are you supposed to say? What is the preferred description and I'm sure once it's been in circulation for a while it will become offensive for some reason. I give up!
Honestly, I don't want to offend anyone, but surely it's a lot better for me to say are you gay? than do you sleep with men?
Really, I just think it's about them wrong footing you. I remember other terms that were used to describe gay people, one was "shirtlifter", there was "poof" and there are other terms which indeed should not be mentioned.
So my question is what are you supposed to say? What is the preferred description and I'm sure once it's been in circulation for a while it will become offensive for some reason. I give up!