The information given in post #57 did not contain a source let alone a means to verify the content.
The information given in post #61 contains a source:-
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/5230708.stm
Which inturn contains a Q&A source:-
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/politics/4497348.stm
The difference I see between #57 and #61 is that #57 expects the reader to agree with the statements whereas #61 attempts to supply verifiable evidence so the reader may become better informed in order to form their own opinion.
My reading leads me in the direction that civil partnerships, once formed, already have equal rights except in title.
Civil partnerships may actually have an advantage in that both parties need not be present when the partnership is formed. That would seem to leave it open for the partnership to be formed when, say, one of the parties was on active service while abroad. Did the two people concerned even consider that situation when they wanted a title change?
If that is a legal possibility then why try to convert civil partnerships to marriages? Why not convert marriages to civil partnerships and get that advantage? In fact, why get married at all and simply live in a de facto relationship?
Australian link:
http://www.law4u.com.au/cgi-bin/factsheet_right.asp?article_id=476
So why the pressing need to publicly try and make a change of title when the result they seek may be less than what they already have?
But I would recommend people form their own opinion by reading all of the sources provided while remembering that the information given may only apply to the country concerned.
Chris.