Then nothing to discuss. We differ on the core of our beliefs.
It seems you can not respect others because they are wrong. Me? I believe everybody deserves to be respected. I don't believe in Bible or Quran. But I try to respect these books because others believe in them.
I disrespect any and all "holy" books equally, but it happens that I don't go burning them. I have the freedom to do so - but not the particular desire. In my own way of thinking, to burn the books would be to grant a level of power that I don't think they should have. But there are those people who wish to make a strong statement. If that is their desire, I will not stand in the way. Besides, burning a copy of the Quran is like the old Doritos commercials. They'll just make more.
My complaint with Islam is specifically that they have not learned the concept of letting the punishment fit the crime. So some jerk goes out and buys a Quran and burns it. So what? Instead of rioting, looting, and widespread arson, just go out and buy a Bible or a Torah or the Analects of Confucius or the Bagavad Gita or something similar and publicly burning that in response. But no, the Swedish Muslims have to go out on a destructive rampage.
When someone draws an image (even a respectfully done image) of Muhammad, how about drawing a picture of Jesus or Moses or King David or the Buddha or... you get the idea. But NO, the Muslims issue a
fatwah, a death threat against the artist or cartoonist and they riot and do property damage to the building of the publisher of that image. One of Salman Rushdie's assistants was killed because of the
fatwah issued against him.
Look at modern Christian churches in the USA. You do something that the congregation doesn't like? They expel you from their membership and perhaps go through a formal excommunication. No killing. No injuring physically. No property damage. They just say "go away and don't come back." But Islam? If THEY don't like you, they kill you. No moderation.
In the USA we believe that the punishment should fit the crime, so we put people in jail or make them pay restitution or make them pay a fine - or all of those options combined. We are not like the Red Queen from Alice In Wonderland. We don't say "Off with his head" and then call out the executioner with his huge axe. We still have problems here, but we are at least trying to fit the punishment to the crime.
THAT is why I have absolute disrespect for Islam. With them it is "do it their way or die." Sorry, but that doesn't work for me. You say I should respect the ideas of others. But if I have watched continued disrespect for the rights of others by the Islamic world for over 70 years, WHY should I respect them? You say everyone deserves to be respected. To which I reply that everything with people is a reflection. If you cannot show respect, you do not deserve respect. It is the Golden Rule (which pre-dates the Bible). It is the old version of "what goes around comes around." The Islamic community does not show us respect because they always seem to over-react. After repeated cases of this, I have finally lost my patience.