Can you understand that your idea of fun isn't shared universally?
Yep I can. and it really pisses me off a lot of times. But that's perfectly fine. That's my issue, not yours.
And yet you claim that you want people to be more caring. Try practicing what you preach for a while. Care about the feelings of others by treating with respect, not scorn. Then let us talk about your attitude.
this is something I will debate on myself forever, literally. Because this whole ""care for others no matter who they are or what they believe"", as I just said, is proliferating throughout the entire world. and even though there is nothing wrong with this, because I understand that this sick ass world that is hugely manipulative, causes people to do all sorts of WEIRD things. But, from what I've always seen, every single piece of weirdness that comes from people on Earth, as an attempt to protect themselves from the manipulative and hateful morons that are in power, is nothing more than an attempt by them to seek love and caring for themselves wherever they can find it. Why would that NOT be normal? of course it is. During Christ's time, the romans did this by killing people and expanding their empire. but that was false. just like today, people are finding comfort in many things to protect themselves from the world's hatred. from what I've seen, all of these apply:
=> they buy a pet if they're single.
=> they go to church with people who are like them.
=> they live with mom and dad.
=> they buy luxury items even though they can't afford them (this has been going on for more than a century).
=> they worship idles like movie stars, rappers, presidents, any female celebrities in sexy outfits, etc, etc....
You need to review the Serenity Prayer. Then learn to live with what you can't change. You can change yourself. You probably can't change us.
of course I can't change you guys. some of you are more lost than others. and some of you have had more tragic and depressing things happen in your lives than others. only my opinion of course. and you may not believe this either Richard, nor do you deserve to know the story (as I won't tell you), but I am currently going through what seems to be ""phases"" of what we, in the Christian circles, call a ""faith journey"". And of course I only say that terms because it was adopted years ago when it became widely known that technology was starting to diminish labor opportunities for people in the general public across the globe. Around that time, more people started to hide in churches so they could guarantee themselves survival because they didn't have the technical competence and/or nasty attitude to survive in the sick and backstabbing business world we have today. and I don't blame them one bit for doing it. the ""journey"" keyword is still widely used literally everywhere in churches, and its primary purpose is to keep political nonsense alive and hide the fact that people generally do not know what true faith really is (or rather, have not found it in their lives yet). and it just so happens so that I am NOT one of those people, and there are many people in may different churches who know me, as what I have become today and what I have to do, that do not like me because of how I present myself. they do not hate because they are caring christians, but they DO get jealous and they do feel anger sometimes toward me I'm sure. Now whether that lasts a lifetime, I would seriously doubt it. Primarily as we roll on into the future and this ""we accept everyone for who they are and everyone can get along"" attitude invades everywhere on Earth.

and I know damn good and well, just like the old people in my parish, that that invasion is nothing more than a subtle introduction of the devil's deception in terms of projecting what ""is true"".
oh, and yes I know the prayer:
"" God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference. ""