Some things to ponder about.

We spend ages trying to educate you, especially as English isn't your first language. I realise we won't see results in our lifetime, but at least we try.

Thank you for the noble effort, trying to rack up enough Brownie points to make it into Heaven?
 
I honestly think Ken meant his initial post to be a light ribbing, although a bit distasteful. It certainly touched a nerve with Col, who of course is devoted and protective of "her indoors" and rightfully so. However, even though Col has admitted in the past to throwing out comments merely to ruffle people's feathers, and then being completely surprised when they take it personally or, in his opinion, responding disproportionately, this seems to be exactly his response. This is absolutely normal. And I have no problem with his initial reaction to Ken's post.

That being said:
This is by far the most disgusting thread I've seen here in all of my years. I can't believe the attacks have grown so personal and insulting. Seriously. My stomach is turned.

God forbid I mispell a word or use improper grammar lest I be named ignorant or somehow a lesser species.

I have to throw my hands up on this one. There is no hope for repairing any relationships here. You know what the really sad thing is? I think that if Ken and Col met at a pub, and struck up a chat, they'd probably get along quite well. The reasons they do not on this forum are simple.

1) Written words can be so misconstrued.
There is fewer chance of misunderstanding people when they are sitting right in front of you. You can see the expression in their face and hear the inflection in their voice when they are right there in person. Less chance of miscommunication

2) It is more difficult to be rude to someone if they are sitting in front of you. The moment we sense we have offended or made someone uncomfortable, we make our apologies and clarify our meaning, or politely steer the conversation to a more agreeable topic. Not so here. Here there are sides to be taken and a brawl to be had.

I'm sorry... but I have to say again that it is disgusting and childish the way this forum has degraded. Horrible. Simply horrible and outrageous. I'm thoroughly disappointed.
 
This is by far the most disgusting thread I've seen here in all of my years. I can't believe the attacks have grown so personal and insulting. Seriously. My stomach is turned.


I'm sorry... but I have to say again that it is disgusting and childish the way this forum has degraded. Horrible. Simply horrible and outrageous. I'm thoroughly disappointed.

I hope for your sake you never enter some of the guns/hunting Political forums:D Trust me, this is a very tame forum.
 
I'm sorry... but I have to say again that it is disgusting and childish the way this forum has degraded. Horrible. Simply horrible and outrageous. I'm thoroughly disappointed.

Sorry Tess. I'll try to lighten up and do better - :o
 
I'm sorry... but I have to say again that it is disgusting and childish the way this forum has degraded. Horrible. Simply horrible and outrageous. I'm thoroughly disappointed.

Tess and Cindy are about the only two Americans whose opinions I respect. I'll lay off Ken and we'll see how it goes.

Col
 
You only have a few more hours to be mean then you'll have to stick to your new years resolution to be nice so I'll let that one slide...:)
 
I take a few days off for the Holidays and you guys are going at each other's throats.

Gee it's fun. I'll have to stay away more often.
 
I take a few days off for the Holidays and you guys are going at each other's throats.

Gee it's fun. I'll have to stay away more often.

Would you mind filling in for me for a while? :p
 
Well it's 10pm here, so I'm off to bed. Seeing in the new year is not something we favour - not even had a drink (except a cup of tea).

Have a good time whatever you're doing. And a special Happy New Year to Tess and Cindy.

Col
 
Well it's 10pm here, so I'm off to bed. Seeing in the new year is not something we favour - not even had a drink (except a cup of tea).

Have a good time whatever you're doing. And a special Happy New Year to Tess and Cindy.

Col

Are you sure it's not because they changed New Year's to coincide with a pagan festival. :D
 

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