Aside from the most obvious reason that 1 person has to start talking first? If there are 2 people in a conversation, A and B, and both "seek to understand before being understood", then they don't communicate with one another.
This quote implies submitting to some authority figure and understanding what they are telling you before trying to communicate yourself.
Again, you are looking at it from your frame of reference instead of stepping back. I was a communications major from one of the Top 10 public universities in the USA, so I feel it's important to correct what you're saying. Attitude and behavior flow from our paradigms and how we see reality. When we have new information and try to make our only desire to be to understand, we have a paradigm shift in how we see an entire situation. It teaches you how to look at things differently.
You have a mental image of what you think Christianity is, what you think Religion is, or what you think is effective communication skills, but in reality, you're seeing the world as you are. You have
assumptions of what reality is, and you think that's the way it really is. In fact, you are describing yourself and projecting your value system and worldview on those things. This hardly paints an accurate picture of the way things actually are.
Adam Caramon said:
This is a very old argument that is readily ignored by educated and/or intelligent people. I can claim numerous things happened that you will not be able to disprove, does that mean they should have any credence in society?
So basically, you're argument is "I'm right, you're wrong, but since I can't prove anything, I'm going to tell you what smart people think?"
Hmm, again, I graduated from one of the best public universities in the USA, and educated and intelligent people take all possibilities into account, and only after thinking them through do they pass judgment. If your goal is to seek out Truth, you would therefore only disregard things that are
demonstrably False.
Educated and intelligent people develop theories and hypothesis, then test those theories and hypothesis. The scientific method. And the existence of God cannot be proven or disproven by the scientific method.
Unless, by your own example, you're insisting that educated and intelligent people should simply disregard the scientific method if they can't achieve the results they were looking for (in which case, then you aren't a truly educated person).
Adam Caramon said:
As an example, how do you know that I am not your God? I could be sitting in Heaven typing this on my laptop made of fluffy clouds. Or I could have divinely inspired a mortal vessel on earth to carry out My word.
Do you believe me? Under your theory that you cannot disprove this, you must at least consider it.
Well, you'd be correct in that I don't believe you. I
could be wrong, but I doubt it. And interestingly enough, you provide an example of debate that goes back thousands of years. Many religions also refuse to believe that Jesus was the Son of God because he didn't fulfill certain prophecies (Jews), or because they believe God would never enter the world in human form (Muslims).