Second: I am offended by the comment made by namliam in post #9.
Certainly didnt mean to offend anyone, least of all you.
However never did I call you a liar or doubt your feelings in any way, sorry if you feel I did...
I am doubting your quote "I love her more than words can say", that is just another catch phrase, one of many that is randomly overused and misused.
Moreover if words cant say, let me quote another random quote...
"Actions .... "
Do as you feel and people wont need to hear it, they just know it which is much more valuable... Then the occational words do mean that much more as well.... Rather than an obligatory "I love you" as you run out the door off to where ever it is you may go....
Marriage like all things is a mix of good and bad, anyone that will tell you it has been all good the last 50 years... that person I will doubt his words very much... thought possible offcourse (exceptions make the rule)
2/3 of all marriages end in divorce
99% of what ever remains long enough, will have its ups and downs and cant ever be 100% good.
@Bob Fitz, again, ever intended to offend you... Please accept my appologies for doing so.
@All dont Judge anyone untill you walk a mile in his/her shoes.
I am sure any serious illness like Cancer, MS, or any of the other "bad" ones out there can make or break anything, a relations, love, even families.
I seen it happen and my thoughts go to those that have to bear the burden of caring for those that have these illnesses.